This past week my husband and I took a huge step in our adoption journey. We decided on an agency and a program. If you know me at all this is huge! I have been researching since before we decided to move to Colorado. And that is what makes this even more exciting.
Back in May 2013, my husband and I started to process and pray about the opportunity to move out to Boulder, Colorado to work for my Dad at CU Boulder. It was then that I started looking into the different adoption agencies and programs that Boulder offered. We had talked a lot about adopting internationally, and more specifically in South America. That was what brought me first to A Family in Bloom Adoption. They had an international adoption program in Nicaragua that really stood out to me.
Fast forward two years….
It took us awhile to find our feet out here in Colorado….to say it was an adjustment is an understatement. But we finally got to a point where we both felt ready to be parents. After doing more research, we decided that an international adoption would not fit with our life stage at this time. We may revisit it in the future but we decided to look around us here and see and fill the need.
We looked into foster-t0-adopt, which is an awesome and much-needed system set in place. I was really excited about going that route. Unfortunately, in Boulder County, you cannot change the name of the child once adopted by you. Now I completely understand why this has been set in place, and I would never force a child to change their name once adopted. However, part of me becoming a mother is being able to choose a name for my child. Will and I have had hours of conversations about the names of our future children. We feel like we already know them each by name and it will be what drives me forward during all the struggles and difficulties we face during this whole process. I have since learned that other counties have different rules (including the right to rename your child) and I think we will definitely explore that option in the future.
So with all that in mind…we decided that for our first adoption we wanted to use an agency who has an infant domestic adoption program. After doing more research on that, I finally came full circle and found myself back at A Family in Bloom Adoption. I had a very honest and genuine talk with her where she was able to explain the fees (which are very reasonable compared to other agencies) and was able to answer my questions completely. Well we decided to meet in person with her and after that we knew this agency would be for us.
I am so excited to to meet little baby (M) whenever we do. Whether it takes 3 months or 3 years we are ready. (S)he is already so loved by us.
Watch out for this mommy in the making! I cannot wait to share more!